The best dates, are by no doubt, the most natural ones. No one likes rehearsed lines, programmed events, and cliches. However, when you are about to go on a first date with someone, the whole prospect of being yourself can be terrifying; you really need to find the best of both worlds on a first date - a perfect mix of spontaneity, and enough of a plan to keep you going, so here are some things to keep in mind - a little bit of revision for your first date!
- The night before, you'll want to plan an outfit. Consider the venue of the date, the time of day, and how much walking you will have to do! Girls might think stilettos are the perfect choice for any date, but it's not so if your date likes a hike. Have a plan for getting around, depending on the weather and if you're having a city or countryside date.
- Chivalry isn't quite dead. When the date begins make a conscious effort to pull back chairs, hold open doors. Be attentive and compliment her, a little flattery goes a long way!
- Always offer to go halves on paying for the night, even if he doesn't accept the offer, it's still polite to ask.
- Drink in moderation, this might sound obvious but when the nerves kick in people lose track of what they drink...
- Ask lots of questions, don't fall into the trap of just talking about yourself.
- Hint if you would like a second date, the first date is never about outward questions, it's all about reading signals and between the lines.
All in all the first date is about being thoughtful, and getting to know each other without giving too much away, even if it doesn't go perfectly, it should still have been a fun night if you have a plan!

